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Let yourself be upset. You may have rushed yourself into moving on since she did so fast. It's okay to cry, it's okay to feel upset, it's okay to reminisce. But it's only okay to a certain extent. Crying one night isn't the end of the world, all you have to do is pick yourself up and work towards a positive tomorrow. I'm assuming she was your first love? Someone you imagined spending your life with? Another will come along. Only a lucky few marry their first loves, and trust me, you've learned a lot from being in love with her. But you will never fully be over her, and in order to heal you need to accept that. You will love many people throughout your life, and just because one is taken away from you, it doesn't mean that you can't go on. You're a strong person, and although she's no longer part of your life, you're allowed to love her, but not in the way you used to. Love what she taught you about life and love, love that she made you feel happy, love that you had the chance to love her. But also love that she gave you the opportunity to find love in other people as well. You will find love, don't rush it (you don't want a rebound). I hope you heal with time, and you will always carry her around in your memories, it's normal and it's okay.