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It took me about 5 months to move on from my ex. It took time for me to heal, I was cheated on, lied to, used, my ex played me it was right in his eyes. I try to distance myself from him and it helps me a lot. And even though we go to the same high school I just stay focused on my schoolwork, I don't' chase him or anything. He actually broke up with me right out of the blue, but it took a lot of time for me to heal it wasn't easy but it was worth it. I had given him to many chances, he flirts with other girls, asks girls for there numbers when he doesn't even know them, etc. I dont' want to date someone like that in the future, if you are going to cheat on me then please just let me be. He had a drinking problem too he started drinking in summer 2012. And since then he did not stop, I asked him if he would but he said no. I decided to cut off all communication with him and in fact I did. I don't want to date some drug addict, either you can drink you can have me, but you can't have both. I'm a toy, either check me out or leave me on the shelf. I gave him way to many chances when all he really deserved was one chance. Sometime told me that I should've never went out with him to begin with, something told me that when he and I were younger that I should probably get to know him as a friend. I've moved on with my life, and I just talk to other people, I would like to date older men in the future. But for now I'm to focused on my schoolwork and my studies to be dating.