Ok so here's the scenario, basically i was with this girl for around 2 years the whole time she told me how i didn't deserve her as she thought that i am going to end up as a bum, she told me how she will leave me because she can't be with a guy who isn't rich and successful. We are both 20 and i'm at university studying to be lawyer but for some reason she thinks i won't make it. Anyway she has dumped me repeatedly over this i stupidly go back to her the 3rd n last time she dumped me she told me she needed to get rid of me now as i will end up as a loser and if she stayed with me for longer and we hit 5 years together it will be harder for her to get rid of me and find someone better. She used to always tell me how much better other guys are than me etc.
Anyway each time we broke up, i would feel hurt obviously but i wouldn't chase her i'd let her go because i knew she was bad for me, she kept coming back each time begging for me back though saying she was wrong and how no one cares about her like me etc and then she'd do the same thing again.
This last time we broke up it's been 3 months and we hadn't spoken i bump into her randomly and she starts crying saying she's lonely without me, i message her to see if she's ok and she says she fine and that's it i move on i didn't want her back but just wanted to make sure she was ok because she cried. Couple weeks later she starts messaging me saying she's addicted to me and can't get over me etc saying she has problems is seeing someone etc i feel really bad so i talk to her try and make her feel better, she invites me over and i go tbh probably a bad idea we end up sleeping together, i told her that i didn't want her back though. Thing is i can see all the signs that she wants me back again it's the same thing that happened last time she even told me she told a friend we was together.
I haven't spoken to her in like 2 weeks a girl i like because i've met someone else, how do i break it my ex, am i in the wrong?
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You? in the wrong? nah.
She's the one constantly ending it, and she's the one folish enough to return to you each time. She simply needs to learn the HARD way you can't trample over someone.
So i'd say it's perfectly ok to date this new girl you met. And honestly, i'd say it sounds like a good idea. YOur other relationship didn't exactly sound like it would last.0
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