This is so not usually me but I would like some advice. I dated my ex for a year and a half. The first part of our relationship we couldn't get enough of each other. We were together everyday, he couldn't even go home to his family without me. He then moved to Germany for an internship for 8 months and I faithfully waited. We talked and skyped everyday making it work. I went to visit him for three weeks and we planned a wonderful European vacation together. When he came back, I rushed to him at the airport and he seemed different. Over the next month he talked about the pressures of school and work and began distancing himself and not communicating. I panicked and tried (too hard) to make him feel comfortable. He broke up with me by coming to my house saying "I don't look forward to seeing you" and walking away. I didn't contact him, I deleted his number and removed him from all social media. He called me a week after our break up and I answered not knowing it was him. He cried and was just asking me how I was doing. Two weeks after that at 4 am he sent me 9 page email about how I pressured him too much and it wasn't goodbye but he wasn't asking me back right now either. I responded wishing him good luck in finding himself. It's been two weeks and I am trying to move on, but I feel he will be back. I loved him but he hurt me badly and I feel with communication we could work it out. I also feel based on his pattern he will communicate with me again but the waiting is the hardest part, am I crazy for not being able to let go?
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Id agree with @Camilos try go no contact with him for at least another week and his mind will wonder and think about you, you just have to hold out till he gives in and contacts you and when he does don't seem too interested and rush it, make it clear that he has hurt you. Guys tend to want what they can't have but that doesn't mean act like your not interested at all when he does contact you and he will or he wouldn't have said this isn't goodbye. Taking this no contact approach will help you move on abit too and when the times right you will be able to choose if you even want him back or if you've been better off without him.0