So he broke up with me i believe for another girl, I come from a family that is old school so i could never sleep over go on vacations and basically gave us no space. So everything I did, I had to be sneaky and lie to be with him at his house. Mind you we were together for almost 4 years and out of the blue he broke up with me come to find out for a girl he met while working. Rewind now almost 8 months later I come to find out he already proposed to her so they are engaged. He is doing everything with her we talked about doing and he moved on so fast i don't understand? Was i not good enough i met him when he had no job no car no education and now with my help and believing in him... he has left me. I don't understand why. And he text me everyday like he still has feeling for me and loves me he says but how when he is with her. I ask him but he just says tells me to stop... Someone help me try to understand this fucked up situation
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If he broke up with you for the other girl, that means he was already attached to her before you guys broke up and his relationship with her is NOT a rebound. If that is the case, for whatever reasons he believes that he and she are a better fit than you and he. His texting you may be a (very poor) way of trying to let you down.
On the other hand, if you misread things and he "fell for her" after you broke up, it could well be rebound. That could explain his confused texting to you.
In either case, as long as he is with her, you are out. That may be the best thing for you with this guy. Try to move on. If he suddenly changes his mind back to you, you will have to think about what he puts you through and how immature he is being. You may well want to walk away in either case.1