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Pretend to start being interested in another woman and see what happens. Don't call her, be polite but don't initiate contact. She keeps contact because she is definitely not over you and the relationship and maybe wants to reunite but wants you to do the right things - apologizing, telling her you have changed and be more distant - she wants you to show independence. That's attractive. Relationships fail because the attraction level drops. Obviously, she is still attracted to you but you have to show more masculinity and attractive traits like independence, happiness, and so on. Also - never fall for the 'let's just be friends' trap. Tell her you're not interested in being friends, you're interested in being her lover and unless she is interested in the same thing, you are moving on with your life. Tell her that and follow through. Stop contacting her, stop initiating anything with her. If she suggests something, assume that she wants you back and invite her over to your place (to watch a movie, to make dinner, whatever) and eventually - have sex.