#GAGExpertChat Are you able to move on from your current relationships without hurt or anger? How do you go about forgiving an ex, do you need closure or can you move on without it? Are you able to fully move onto a new relationship without forgiving the last person?
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly one of the hardest things to do in life is to forgive someone who hurt you. But I have to say that in the bible god recommends that you forgive other people and the realm for that is not to help the other person, it's to help you. Forgiveness allows you to get over the pain and not have it constantly go through your head and waste your time and wreck your life. And actually one of the hardest things to do is forgive yourself. I still can't forgive myself for certain things and it's a burden. One day I will though after I make up for what I've done. Real talk4
Most Helpful Girl
Yup. I just think the past is past and after a few days to a few weeks, I find I'm no longer thinking of them and it's their loss. I always try everything I can in a relationship before breaking it off, so I've never been the one to end it yet. So I tell myself I've done all I can, wish them well, and walk on.
It's not normal, I know, but I try to think that there's something better out there. One more tally mark of "he's not the one" just narrows it down by one more person. ☺4