Ok I'm gonna keep this short. I recently broke up with my LTR ex of 3 years about 2 months ago and almost a a week after I began talking to a new girl I just met almost immediately. I still care for my ex because I loved her for 3 years. I have been told that moving on fast is signs if a rebound. My question is simple I guess. Is just talking in a flirtatious manner considered trying to rebound. I do spend a lot of time with this new girl sense we live in a dorm together. I feel sorta guilty so help is appreciated
Is just talking considered rebounding?
What Girls Said 1
Same ! Are you still in love do you find yourself thinking about your ex when you are not preoccupied with this new girl, While your alone does your mind go to your ex? do you miss her? Does this new girl make you feel happy and make you forget your ex? If you answer yes to most of these then it certainly is Rebound.. a lot of people dont realise they are actually using another person as a victim for there own desires.. To get over an ex from a long term relationship will take a lot longer than a wk and since you started talkin a wk after your break these two months ain't gave you your grieving time!!
I suggest you take time out of any fling and have a few months you time to figure out what you want0
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What Guys Said 1
Of course you care for your ex, but the real question is, are you in love with her? Are you still grieving the breakup? If yes is your response to either question, then, honestly, the new girl is a rebound.0
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