In short, I've been separated from my ex-wife since April. I initiated the divorce because we were always fighting. We split, filed all the papers, and have been living separately. No kids, we were married 7 years and we are both in our 30s.
My ex-wife and I have stated talking again and we hung out last night for several hours. I've had sex with several women while we were separated, but no serious relationships. My ex knows about one of the women, she says it will be very difficult to overcome knowing I had sex with her regularly when we were separated. She wants to know all the details and she is asking me to cut ties with the women I was seeing.
I still love my ex, but she will flip if I told her the truth. I was having sex, including threesomes with two women I have known for years when we split. I don't think she would ever forgive me. I want to go into this honestly, but that would crush her.
What should I do?
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You split up due to constant fighting. What makes you think things will be any different now?
You said it yourself, if you told her about other women, she will flip. So you're back to square one.
She's clearly not of the understanding kind, if she can't accept the fact that you had sex with other women after you BROKE UP.
Why do you want to pursue this relationship, if it's just gonna cause you the exact same pain again?
Stop kidding yourself and move on. You're not meant to be together, especially when she expected you to not touch other women since you split.
Count your losses and MOVE ON.0