My ex and I had a really messy break up?
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I'm sorry, it's the only thing you can do, to cut contact with him. It's more about preventing you from doing things that will NOT make him miss you. If you're always there, talking to him, he will not miss you because you're not truly gone. Unfortunately, even if you go no contact, there is no guarantee he will miss you, that is something out of your control, I know it is hard to accept.
Bravo @potoobird! There is nothing you can do to make him miss you. And, you should not want to make him miss you just as you would not want to make him like you or love you. People feel how they feel and we put forth too much effort to change things about that. If I don't like you 'naturally' and I like you because you're trying really hard and changing your appearance, etc., the reality is, I like the effort and attention and you better be on that game all the time.
Have confidence that you can find someone else who will like you for you. And I say this as a certified relationship coach that's done this for years. Read my article on www.mazeoflove.com called "You Can't Make Me Love You"
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