My ex and I kept fighting. For the past month (october), I dont know what was going on but we never fight but the past month we just kept fighting and nothing got resolved. We would move from one fight to another. I was just so angry and hurt. I felt neglected because he was always with his friends. I didn't see him for weeks sometimes. After a fight I said "We should see other people". He was shocked. The next day I took it back saying "I love you Im sorry" He took me back but after 3 days he said "We should break up". He could not get over it. He said "Why did you say it?" "You wanted to break up" I was in the moment.
He agreed to be friends I went along. We talked almost everyday. 2 weeks later I said "I love you and we should work it out" He said "I dont think its a good idea" I said Alright
5 Days later he texts me "Hey beautiful". I didn't really have anything to say.
A few days later I tell him I dont think we should be friends because we want different things.
He said "Im just fine with being friends"
He said "Your sweeping me under the rug?"
I said "No, I just love you too much to be friends with you"
He said "So you need time?""Just do never talk to me again"
I said Ok
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it seems to me that you two are constantly in this sort of cat and mouse game. when one wants to take things to a certain point the other doesn't and vice versa. it seems to me that you both probably need to be apart for a while so you can both figure out precisely what you want. then you can come back to each other and make a decision. I'd literally say that you two maybe agree to have 100% no communication for a month or two. let you both figure out exactly what you want on your own and then come talk to see if what you both want is what the other wants0