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Well, women have been heart broken because I rejected or dumped them, however it wasn't intentional and it was unavoidable. In fact my leaving them was heartbreaking for me, too, because they were good people. It's just we weren't a match.
Myself, I've never felt any woman broke my heart. Ever. This is not to say I haven't been heartbroken! Not so by any means! It's just they rejected me or they dumped me, and for the same reasons I've done it to other women. They didn't mean to hurt me intentionally, but what else could they do?
This is why I often dislike the phrase "He/She broke my heart." There's a subtle implication that it's done intentionally. In most cases, it isn't intentional. In many cases, the rejecter/dumper's heart is aching, too. Only the cruel LIKE rejecting people or dumping people, and most people I've encountered aren't particularly cruel.2
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