I've been with her for 4 years, I'm her first love and first everything. She's 22 years old and when we broke up she started dating around and sleeping around. I was surprised as all this as she was innocent when we were together.
We've been broken up for 2 months now and didn't have contact until she texted me she missed me, loved me still, and missed being with me.
We had a talk and she said she sees me in the future and not now cause she wants to explore and enjoy herself cause she's still young but she sees us getting married. I really love her & i told her I dont think i can do this. She wants to take it slow & stay in contact daily but i know she's talking to other guys.
I don't know why I decided to go on this guy's FB and it was his bday. She told me she left work early today and in back of my head i had a feeling she was sleeping over this guy's place so I drove by to her place and her car wasn't there late at night.
I'm pretty bummed right now cause I got the day off tomorrow and she wants to spend time tomorrow night. Why is she doing this to me? I know she's single and she can enjoy herself but why is she sleeping around? It sucks I'm torturing myself by holding onto hope of getting back together.
I want to bring this up to her tomorrow but any good advice from here?
It's so hard for me to let go cause I enjoy her company & the sex is so good. How can she say all these things after we've been broken up for 2 months?
She said she did everything to get over me but she just can't, misses me, loves me a lot.
Most Helpful Girl
Why don't you just see other people then in a whole if you guys still want each other try again... Big dint wait around while she's seeing other guys.
It's understandable she wants to explore while she's young. You could too... Then try again later after it's out if your system.
That or move on. She told you her position she's Not in relationship mode ATM. Take or leave it.0
Most Helpful Guy
She doesn't really see a future with you. She just enjoys having you as an admirer. Some women like the attention of men and string these guys along, making the guy think there is a chance for a relationship. You just happen to be one of the guys she uses to validate herself. You aren't special to her. Do not even consider getting back with these self centered girl. You are better off without her.0