Most Helpful Guy
I think you'll need to see if there are any real signs that he's not ready to let it go.
I can tell that you're not, and that puts you in a very hard position.
Has he done or said anything, apart from being understanding (that probably doesn't count) that shows that he's not ready for it to be over?
Best wishes to you, I know it's hard! :)
Most Helpful Girl
Although you asked for a guy's only point of view, I hope you won't mind allowing this wise ol' owl to throw in one of her own, DheElon... With everything you have both been through for th epast few months, locking horns more than locking lips, with this break up that you have tried to 'Apologize' in many ways for your own errors of your ways, the ball is now in his court to find out what he wants to do with it. Give him some space, give him this time, give him a chance to see if a little Missing the Kissing isn't in there sometime and maybe, just maybe, he will be back in contact with you... at least on a civil note or to discuss just whatever.
If you both have had this full circle pattern in going around in circles with this, then maybe this is just one of those Other moments in time that he is simply saying again: You live and you learn.
Don't push any buttons in regards to the birthday boy on Thanksgiving Day. I feel if he really wants you to be by his side, then he will push a bone of a button on his end to talk turkey and invite you over to break bread.
Only God knows how he really feels and if it's over or not... and of course, each and every time we make mistakes time and time again, sometimes we never really learn until we reach rock bottom.
Good luck, God bless. xx