Most Helpful Girl
Don't get back with her. She cheated on you. She obviously never cared about you. You should never have taken her back in the first place. I get that seven years is a long time and she was your first love, but she wasn't right for you. Guaranteed she is cheating on her new boyfriend too. She doesn't sound like a very nice person. She also broke up with you with a message! She didn't do it face to face like she should have. She probably cheated on you with that guy and then left you for him. Keep no contact with her. Just stay single for a while so you can get over her and then start looking for someone new. You'll find a better girl rather then her. She doesn't deserve you.
Most Helpful Guy
friend, if could id put my hand on your shoulder and look you deep in the eyes with a stern look. move the fuck on. that girl never cared truly about you, cut your loses, mark it off as a bad experience. learn from it, grow. i had a date today and it was bad. no attraction no nothing. that other person flat out told me, you know what? i ordered another beer and flirted with the waitress, put on my head phones and had a great ride home, all buzzed up with good music. never look back at shit that don't matter. a person cheating on you is shit that doesn't matter, its like windows on your pc. drag the icon in the garbage bin and empty it to save space. there are no ifs or but. be confident. be you!