I'm not doing this friends thing. I feel like your just using me for comfort and then will just cut me off one day when your ready to move on. If i wasn't good enough then just let me go or be real friends.
What is this real friends thing about. He doesn't want to be friends but says be real friends. I didn't force him to have sex.
Most Helpful Guy
I couldn't agree with him more, although I don't know what real friends means.
I've never understood why people are friends with exes. Why should he sit and idle by while you have your fun with other guys, leaving him to wonder if he'll ever get another shot with you.
You both need to move on. Screw the friendship, stop having sex, and don't get back together. Your best bet... agree with him... say you wouldn't use him but you're fine with not being friends. And if you do wanna be friends, odds are you're keeping him at bay as a future last resort. Move on.
Most Helpful Girl
It seems at the moment he is your friends with benefits . Real friend for him probably mean no sex. The thing is he still in love with you. So it kind of impossible for him to be friend. I don't think he is an asshole.