I have an extremely busy schedule, working full time and tasking a lot of classes, and I'm against cohabitating before marriage, so for many reasons, I knew that being in a relationship with someone who could not support herself until I'd decided whether or not I would consider marrying her was out of the question.
I was never this blunt with her when I asked for us to stop seeing each other, but I did explain the situation to her in the kindest way possible.
Since the first time I told her why we had to break up, she said she understood and even explained some of it back to me in her own words. Even so, she'd ask me to explain it again the next time she spoke with me. Everytime I explain it she says she understands, but then she asks me to give her closure by explaining it again. I think she's also trying to guilt me by telling me she goes out and gets drunk to avoid thinking about me.
Is she actually confused, or is she just trying to get my attention? How can I best respond to her so she can move on and we can both be over this?
If she responds and keeps on trying to guilt me, or drudge up the past, then I'm going to have to stop responding to her. Thanks for your input everyone!
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She wants you back she isn't confused she just wants you to be guilted to get back with her. You're going to have to be a dick to get her off your back. I hate to say it because I try to be as nice as possible to people at all times but for this certain type of person you're going to have to put your foot down. Make her hate you, at least then she can move on with her life and leave you alone.
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