Things I used to find cute about him now irritate me constantly, I don't feel any excitement about him anymore, I don't feel attracted to him like I once did, i'm not interested in sex and if I don't see him it's not really a big deal anymore. We don't share many interests and are basically two different people, but I love him. And he loves me. I told him I was feeling this way (to an extent) and I could see how it hurt him, he told me he wants me to be happy and if that means leaving him then he'd deal with it, but he doesn't want to. He told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and it all broke my heart because of how I feel. I don't think it's a good idea to stay with him as it would only prolong the inevitable but I love him so much and I can't stand to see him hurt. And when I say love, it's not the right kind of love, I love him as a best friend, not a lover anymore.
- Yes, leave him.Vote A
- No, try and make it work.Vote B
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Yes... If the tings about him you actually felt for are now irritating you, you should leave him. But as a guy who has recently been dumped I say this: give him a fair chance! Tell him how you feel, and that you are unsure about your relationship. he will either break it up right there, or he will man up and improve himself and become an even better boyfriend. Just an idea.2