My ex and I had a bad break up because he was not like himself towards me. He left me for sombody else when I tried to work it out for some girl at his work place. And just forgot about me. He calley me told me he missed me he want to be friends but then started being rude and mean when I said no I'm changing me number. He told me that he has all my pictures in his phone and still had every thing I gave him. why though after he just up and leave me still have everything of me in his position? I just don't understand. He left me with all this heartbreak then tell me that. Can someone explain this I don't need advice I want to no what's the reason for this. Plus he has said lots me mean things saying he has no feelings for me after 2 years.
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Many guys tend not to delete pics from their phones, not all anyway, but 100? hopefully they were decent pics. I read a few things here that made me believe that you were probably the cause of this break up. Now i know that is something women hate to hear but people hate to hear the truth too. when i read
"he was not like himself towards me"
"when i tried to work it out"
"when I said no"
I thought to myself, maybe you weren't the cause of the break up but you sure as hell are the reason why its going to stay a break up. the first example you were expecting him to act a certain way and because he wasn't like that to you, you claimed there was a problem. secondly, in most cases, when a woman said "im working on it" im sure she's doing more harm than good. the better phrase is "WE should work on it". lastly, he reached out, in his own way, for friendship, but because of the selfishness streak you have going on, you sank the last nail in the coffin you buried your relationship in... you said no.
Assuming you had said yes, there would have been a possibility of old feelings coming back up and you could have gotten him back. Now, he gone.
As for those pics, they have nothing to do with anything, either he deletes them soon or his new girl will do it for him.1
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