It's different for each person, but my first real heartbreak was when I got rebounded.
Here's a few things I experienced
1) depression and emptiness 2) lack of focus on priorities like school, looking for jobs 3) lost interest in things I was usually interested in, especially common interests me and the girl had 4) low self esteem 5) lack of trust when a girl would be flirting with me or showing interest 6) loss of appetite 7) worthlessness
I don't know what other guys do. I know this is going to make me sound creepy and gross among other things, but it seems to help and I want to be honest so here goes... In the past when I was hurt by a girl in a breakup, I would become promiscuous. In general I am not a promiscuous person. It has helped!
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Guys get depressed for a bit just like women. we dont feel like going out or seeing anyone or doing anything, just stay home and watch some tv, play some video games. THEN AFTER A FEW DAYS OR WEEKS, we move on and talk to other women, go out and meet other women, have a positive attitude, find something to do, we work out, so when your ex sees you, she sees you all happy and will want to know what is going on.
"... she sees you all happy and will want to know what is going on." is a big part of it. The biggest goal for us is to look like we're over the ex, and to not give them any attention.
The only time I've truly been heartbroken I underwent a temporary personality transformation and became a very bitter, cynical, emotional drama queen. It caused all my male friends to alienate and exclude me from most of their outings.
My 1st break up was the worse didn't date for a year got a dog!! But i can tell u after 13 failed attempts it gets easier as u get older. Ill have some time to myself maby a week or to to think about what went wrong so it won't hapen again.
Why who is he? What does he do? I normaly like to figure shit out 4 my self. IM on the same journy as u r the road of self improvement. I have come a long way and am happy wid my progress.
When my heartbreak I did weird things like stay inside my hOuse for a whole year listening to music and watch a bunch of movies and tv shows, or go to the gym trying to get my mind off of it. It depends how hard it hit. And I cut off a bunch of people Most of the time i think about killing myself. And I really try not to shed a tear for the girl who broke my heart. It didn't feel right to. Too much pride I guess.
Well I don't consider break up a heartbreak. To me a break up is a good thing, finding out you are not going anywhere with that person and now you can go find someone better.
in the worst possible ways first comes denial where we start acting as if nothing happened then a week later the sorrow hits us and we disconnect from the world then comes the feeling shitty part where we start feeling like we are nothing
We celebrate being single again. Then we hit on girls until we realize that the girl that broke up with us was the only person willing to sleep with us.
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Wait, how many breakups have you been through (and what were the lengths of each relationship)?
If you don't mind...
Were they short-term, long-term, mixed?
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I've been through 3 serious break ups, the rest were just disappointments. I had one long and very serious relationship, we even lived together and then the other two were short term. The long-term was the last relationship I was in.
Usually they're really sad and still care about you. Break-ups are never easy for anyone especially for guys after they put so much time and effort in trying to make you happy.
this guy ere does gross things on his own time. when I would get dumped, I would go talk to one of the x's friends. sometimes im the one doing the dumping
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After breaking up with their gf there leant up falling in to another girls arms as a replacement shag her like you never existed and live the single all over again like nothing happened
Pretend to get better; get drunk less, get a better job, work harder, hang out with less perfesional degenerates. At least temperarily. Eventual things just go back to the way things were.
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Men move the fuck on with no regrets. boys cry and complain about "the one that got away". Obviously I wasn't good enough for her at the moment. I keep myself busy and know i'm the best there is and if anything its there loss.
That's good and all but make sure you are learning from your mistakes. If she dumped you it can be easy to think SHE was the problem.. but sometimes it is you and some bad habits you have and if you don't learn from your failed relationships and act all high and mighty you will never have a successful one.
Sorry i think you misunderstood a bit. I myself am self aware and judge every action i make. Everyone judges and everyone compares there's no avoiding that. So when i go toe to toe with another guy i want to be the overall better package in every aspect of the word. I chase perfection maybe will never achieve it but i do chase it in a way where i make my flaws attractive. No one wants a perfect guy that's boring but just enough flaws can make you the cream of the crop.
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It's different for each person, but my first real heartbreak was when I got rebounded.
Here's a few things I experienced
1) depression and emptiness
2) lack of focus on priorities like school, looking for jobs
3) lost interest in things I was usually interested in, especially common interests me and the girl had
4) low self esteem
5) lack of trust when a girl would be flirting with me or showing interest
6) loss of appetite
7) worthlessness
I don't know what other guys do. I know this is going to make me sound creepy and gross among other things, but it seems to help and I want to be honest so here goes... In the past when I was hurt by a girl in a breakup, I would become promiscuous. In general I am not a promiscuous person. It has helped!
liars liars liars
Guys get depressed for a bit just like women.
we dont feel like going out or seeing anyone or doing anything, just stay home and watch some tv, play some video games.
THEN AFTER A FEW DAYS OR WEEKS, we move on and talk to other women, go out and meet other women, have a positive attitude, find something to do, we work out,
so when your ex sees you, she sees you all happy and will want to know what is going on.
"... she sees you all happy and will want to know what is going on." is a big part of it.
The biggest goal for us is to look like we're over the ex, and to not give them any attention.
The only time I've truly been heartbroken I underwent a temporary personality transformation and became a very bitter, cynical, emotional drama queen. It caused all my male friends to alienate and exclude me from most of their outings.
Happened once to me as well :/
My 1st break up was the worse didn't date for a year got a dog!! But i can tell u after 13 failed attempts it gets easier as u get older. Ill have some time to myself maby a week or to to think about what went wrong so it won't hapen again.
Watch Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. You will not regret it.
Why who is he? What does he do? I normaly like to figure shit out 4 my self. IM on the same journy as u r the road of self improvement. I have come a long way and am happy wid my progress.
When my heartbreak I did weird things like stay inside my hOuse for a whole year listening to music and watch a bunch of movies and tv shows, or go to the gym trying to get my mind off of it. It depends how hard it hit. And I cut off a bunch of people Most of the time i think about killing myself. And I really try not to shed a tear for the girl who broke my heart. It didn't feel right to. Too much pride I guess.
never experienced a heartbreak, but if i did then i'd do only one thing...
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Well I don't consider break up a heartbreak. To me a break up is a good thing, finding out you are not going anywhere with that person and now you can go find someone better.
in the worst possible ways
first comes denial where we start acting as if nothing happened
then a week later the sorrow hits us and we disconnect from the world
then comes the feeling shitty part where we start feeling like we are nothing
Run, work out, listen to music a ton, get busy with something else to avoid thinking about it
We celebrate being single again. Then we hit on girls until we realize that the girl that broke up with us was the only person willing to sleep with us.
the only way i forgot was by loving someone else. U need someone to fill that space or u will keep thinking
"omigodo is the reason so many voodoo priest are pushed to be better in their art. he has been like a mentor to many and he is a legend in the inner circuits of voodoo. he help and he can help you too. Discover voodoo once and for all he is the better spell caster to bring back your ex in just 2 days you can reach him via email{omigodoshrine@hotmail. co. uk} or call +2348079367204 "
Wait, how many breakups have you been through (and what were the lengths of each relationship)?
If you don't mind...
Were they short-term, long-term, mixed?
I've been through 3 serious break ups, the rest were just disappointments. I had one long and very serious relationship, we even lived together and then the other two were short term. The long-term was the last relationship I was in.
Usually they're really sad and still care about you. Break-ups are never easy for anyone especially for guys after they put so much time and effort in trying to make you happy.
this guy ere does gross things on his own time. when I would get dumped, I would go talk to one of the x's friends. sometimes im the one doing the dumping
After breaking up with their gf there leant up falling in to another girls arms as a replacement shag her like you never existed and live the single all over again like nothing happened
Pretend to get better; get drunk less, get a better job, work harder, hang out with less perfesional degenerates. At least temperarily. Eventual things just go back to the way things were.
Men move the fuck on with no regrets. boys cry and complain about "the one that got away". Obviously I wasn't good enough for her at the moment. I keep myself busy and know i'm the best there is and if anything its there loss.
That's good and all but make sure you are learning from your mistakes. If she dumped you it can be easy to think SHE was the problem.. but sometimes it is you and some bad habits you have and if you don't learn from your failed relationships and act all high and mighty you will never have a successful one.
Sorry i think you misunderstood a bit. I myself am self aware and judge every action i make. Everyone judges and everyone compares there's no avoiding that. So when i go toe to toe with another guy i want to be the overall better package in every aspect of the word. I chase perfection maybe will never achieve it but i do chase it in a way where i make my flaws attractive. No one wants a perfect guy that's boring but just enough flaws can make you the cream of the crop.
First they tell themselves it was the bitch's fault (which it always is).
Then they go out and get banged ASAP. That always helps.