i just don't understand after 2 years plus more with friendship she can forget me to the point she won't even reply to simple happy birthday text, she dumped me and was seeing another guy 2 weeks later, it has been 3.5 months with virtually no contact, i still don't know what i did that was so bad as to be treated this way. I'm so sad ibe lost my best friend and the girl i love t, what do i do? i can't stop crying and I feel like I'm losing all my friends, plus she is going to be at a mates birthday party this weekend, should i go and brave it out? ivenever ben so gutted and sad in all my life!
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My friend, I know how you feel. I was there, your heart is ripped from you and thrown to the wolves by the very person you thought you could trust. I was there and grieved as you did. I wondered what went wrong, and it took me to look at my relationship with my ex objectively to see what went wrong. First, relationships Break over time, women have interest levels that can increase or decrease, by circumstances. Women are turned off, and send signals, for ex. Various changing attitudes toward u and the relationship. Arguments out of no where, mysterious disappearance and my favorite the no call, no text, no show. Maybe, you sent her a red flag, maybe, she was psycho and you rationalized her behavior because of love , lust, and beauty. Maybe you crowded her, appeared jealous, maybe your life was too messy, or grooming. Something dropped her interest level from the 90% mark to the 30%. I say, she is not coming back, let her be, she is not worth it, one woman, for you, per life time, that's it... she missed out, leave her be. Cry, yell, screw if you have to, confide in a friend about how you feel. Sit in a dark room, with sad love songs and sing along, grieve!! Then slowly move on, by not cyber stalking her, loose her number, go to the gym and buff up, take son great pics and get on a good date site, and try and move forward. Your a great person, who will find, a great woman, she my friend was not it.0