The boyfriend and I got in a big fight last night. He says "i am done. It doesn't matter any more, i am done. We are done." So i let things cool down and went downstairs to our room, sent him a text that said "so are you ending this relationship? Yes or no." He says "i am not fighting like this every week. I am done." So when I continued to ask him if he was ending this relationship, he said "go to bed. I am done talking." What does that mean?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he's pissed off and wanted you to stop texting until he's calmed down.1
Most Helpful Girl
How may times have I Heard That in my own marriage to a moody Muslim husband out in Egypt?
It's just an Expression some seem to use when they don't want to lock horns with you. They are telling you they don't want to put up with Putting on the gloves 'Every week' and are Finished with doing it... go it alone but not with them on the other end.
When he told you to "Go to bed. I am done talking..." he merely wanted to call it a Nite, call a Truce, threw the towel in by Ending this conversation so you both could Sleep on it and begin your beguine Tomorrow of going back to your relationship but Hopefully----Not back to your old ways of being fighters but lovers instead.
Good luck. xx2
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