I was dating a man for 6 months who told me we were in a exclusive relationship and I was his gf but would never tell his friends or family about me. Nor would he meet mine. I tried several times to break up with him only to have him promise me he would. It never happened and out of the blue he called me and said it was over with the "it's not you it's me" excuse. It was over the phone and I was devastated. I tried opening up my feelings to him texting and emailing only to have him tell me to stop because it showed I had no class and was a desperate bimbo. I was crushed yet again by all I revealed to him and he didn't have the decency to respect my feelings. Is this a guy I should ever hope to win back. He's been out there 16 years and finds the problem is always the women.
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That's the typical cowards way of getting out of an unwanted relationship "it's not you, it's me". Since you've already opened up to him, it's best you leave with your dignity and learn from this. There were obviously red flags and you wanted to see past those.
Don't be surprised if soon down the line he reaches out to you, but be strong and you'll be able to think much clearly. People like him are extreme disappointments0