Most Helpful Girl
You sound like a great guy, I honestly wish my ex was something like yours. She doesn't deserve you, trust me. My ex broke up with me right out of the blue about 9 months ago because the relationship was to hard. When I clearly did all the work and he just sat back and drank, etc. He said it was to hard when clearly he doesn't know what he wants. He wants all the women in the world, and I'm just like you can't have all of us you can only have one of us. You seem like a really nice guy and you were good to her she is just missing out. But if I had met someone like you I would've never let them go. I don't ask for a lot in a relationship just that partner does his part and treats me right and shows that he loves me. Yes it is her loss, its not ur fault its her loss. Move on the best way that you can if you have her number delete it, and block it. She doesn't deserve you, so why worry if she does come back just keep on walking. I made a stupid mistake of going back to my ex back in January 2014, he said he loved me and gave me a hug and I said I love you back. It only lasted for about 1-2 months and out of the blue he just broke up with me. It didn't take me long to realize that he was a player and he also cheated on me. I should've kept on walking when he said my name. You'll find your perfect match someday. I know what I want and who I want, I want something serious and real and committed of course. I'm done settling for less. I've been told I'm very mature for my age. Others that I have been with, not so much.
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Guy
"I miss her though since she was my first"
You never forget your first. And over time, no matter how bad the relationship was. All you remember are the good points. Which makes this person more attractive in your mind
If you want her back go after her. If not then move on and forget her.
With reading your post. You give off a sense of entitlement too. Just being athletic and well built does not mean, woman will naturally be drawn to you. Everybody has a preference. Work for what you want.