Can I or should I tell my fiance (father of our children, decade of being together, but sepparated ) that I miss him so much and I am scared? we aren't getting along right now, we are going to counceling to work out and fix our problems, we spend one day a week together to keep connected. But he has said that he loves me very much and he does want us back togeher , but he also said that he is irratated with me and has some resentment too.
Can I or should I tell him that I miss him and i'm scared?
What Guys Said 2
I don't know if I have the right to give my opinion here because of my age and that I don't know much about marriage. However I do believe that you should tell him that you miss him and are afraid.0
I just recently got divorced, and I would argue it was the healthiest divorce I have encountered. We were open the entire time. Of course you are scared, I was scared, she was scared. But that doesn't mean you aren't doing the right thing separating. Remember the reasons you are separated, have those changed? Don't let the fear of change, or the fear of loss put you back in an unhappy relationship.
If he is using words like resentment he is probably done, and you should try and accept that. That doesn't mean not to tell him how you feel, but I wouldn't expect it to change anything.0
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