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It took about 5-8 months to realize that he wanted me back. I stopped talking to him for 5 months and then he came back to me and said he loved me. I thought he wanted me back but it didn't take long to realize that he was a player and a cheater. He left me and broke up with me right out of the blue. So after he broke with me I cut off ll contact with him, and its been 9 months. I think I just thought I was in love. I should've kept on walking when he said my name and then he tried to hug me. I should've said get off of me and don't touch me but I didn't. It took me a while to realize that he and i broke up for good. Because he flirts with other women, he's a player, and he cheated on me. He doesn't really know what he wants. I know what I want finally. We met in middle school (6th grade) and dated for approximately 5 years. He and I just make awkward eye contact that's all it is, but we don't talk at all. He says hi to me in the hallways but I say nothing back I act like I don't here him. Plus, why should I give him the time of day. We he sat there and tried me like dirt.