Im in a long distance relationship (he comes home in 2 days). I'm worried that my boyfriend is cheating. I'm also really insecure so I don't know if its my insecurity or if this gut feeling is something I should listen to.
-he snapchats other girls, one girl in particular. when i ask him about her he says they are only friends and they don't talk or hang out.
-he will Skype me, say his 'guy friend' is the person texting him so much, then when i say "text me?' he lies and says his phone will die so he doesn't have to
-He isn't very sexual. its an LDR but still..
-He goes totally off the radar and won't contact me for hours, especially late at night
-When we fight he wants nothing to do with me, says he 'is busy' and will not tell me why
BUT when i ask him or accuse him at all, he gets really upset. He says I should trust him and that if he wanted to be single, he'd just be single. He says if he was to do that to me, he'd tell me first, and that he never will. He is still affectionate, even if we have fought non-stop he will tell me he loves me and be a sweetheart to me.
But part of me KNOWS that if i ask to see his text message history when he comes home, he would refuse.
What do I do? I love him but I'm so worried. How can I find out if I can trust him?
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it does sound like something is going on... sorry to say. his behavior seems to indicate that he is maybe doing things he shouldn't. now him being MIA for hours could just him out being social but the snapchat thing might indicate who he is being social with which does raise a red flag.
as a person who has been cheated on twice, unfortunately signs often times are only that, signs. the could just be flags but nothing else is going on but it could be something is going on. what do your instincts say? perhaps you could talk to a friend who knows your guy and may be able to provide insight based on their knowledge of who he is0