So I had this crush on a guy for last 7yrs.. we were just friends... he was in a relationship then. i never revealed it up to him.. until last year when I accdiently got to contact him.. say it destiny. eventually we got to know each other better. my relationship with him turned from just friends to very close friends. he was single then he shared me why it dint work with the previous girl.. it was then when I gathered courage n revealed him my feelings that I carried for 7 years... he was probability not prepare to face this truth.. but he told me"lets see where it takez"and gave me hope.. we still continued to be close friend.. but at some point I was feeling a bit lost about the whole thing so I backed off.. I was scared to hurt myself... n v had this break up due to a third party involved... we dint talk lk for 8months n it was last month that I got back to him thinking that we should give it a try.. but things have changed.. hez getting married in feb n has invited me for it.. I have no clue what to do? n at this stage I realise it was not just a silly crush itz a deep love.. coz I hv not moved on.. n never been in any relationship
A crush of 7ys.. feelings revealed.. regrets?
What Guys Said 1
I think you have a lot to regret. Next time, if there ever is a next time, seize the day no backing off because you're too scared to hurt yourself. And tell 3rd parties to get lost!
Think about it, if you are going to regret this much and you know you will regret this much, then why not take the risk? Surely getting hurt would feel better because at least you know you did all you can.
Sucks things have worked out this way for you. Perhaps you will love again.0
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