My gf of 6 years, has been going through a very stressful time right now, trying to find herself and her career after obtaining her degree. Everything had been good between us, and the only thing i can think is that her parents have been putting so much stress on her to get a job and further her career and so much stuff, to the point where she doesn't want to deal with it anymore. She said she is tired of having her life controlled and she said she's confused and needed to find herself.
So after a few weeks she started going out partying/getting wasted and doing things that even our friends say aren't like her at all. (unfortunately some of her friends encourage it...) but, she was doing that and ended up meeting this "bad boy" that she was really into, I don't know why. anyway, she had been hanging out with him a lot even tho she only just met him, and i learned she had been having sex with him, and leading him on and im just shattered. and dont know what to do anymore.
i only ever wanted to help my gf and do everything to make her happy. after 6 years, she suddenly does this and tells me that what we had just wasn't what she thought it was? She is not herself right now, and she royally fucked up in my opinion. she says she doesn't regret it and that she's just "moving on", how can someone be so cruel, this is NOT the girl i fell in love with. I think she is in a phase of rebellion because of the stress in her life right now, and sadly she ruined us in the process. I hope she looks back one day and realizes what she has done. Not for my sake even, but for her own, and so her old awesome, caring and great self resurfaces. She is hiding from responsibility and will never understand how badly I have been hurt.
It was the best I'd ever felt, but looks like it's time for me to cut the rope, and don't look back. At least I'm still the same person. Maybe one day, she'll be again too.
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I feel for you, i thought it was bad enough after 4 years. Cut the rope and move on. She wasn't the one if she cheated on you and the fact she shows no remorse is EVEN WORSE. What a bitch. You hear about some really horrible people on here. It doesn't matter why. She did it, she made the mistake, she shouldn't even be thinking about other guys. Honestly man, you deserve better than this.1
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