Two days later I sent a text trying to clarify that I understand he needs to take things slower and asked for him to let me know if that doesn't work for him. No response.
It's been a month and after thinking, I called him to say I'm sorry about a few things and hoped that the anger from our fight had subsided. He made comments in the past about me hurting his ego and feeling like he's not good enough, so I thought maybe that's why he turned away from me since he's NOT the player type and focused on running a company now, so I never thought it was because he's a player. No answer.
So I followed up with a hand written apology letter and sent it to his house. I wanted him to know I was generally sorry if I said anything like that and for making him jealous over my exes (all by mistake). I believe in honesty and I thought he would want to hear that. I'm assuming he got it by now, but still, no word since I saw him a month ago. My messages were very mature and not needy, and since we're in our 30s, he should be able to understand that.
Side note: he has OCD and a new high stress job, there's a possibility he could be using some drugs, and seems naturally sensitive and upset these days. He's also my friend's brother, so I find it strange he wouldn't at least smooth things over since I'll definitely see him in the future.
What do you think happened? What do you think he thinks of me contacting him? I need some peace :( thanks!