I feel bad for dumping him after our first date. He's at my uni and we've been flirting back and forth for a month or two. However, after our first date i realised it wasn't a good idea to go out with him so when he texted me i told him that we should just remain friends; and he said that he felt the same way but then he asked me to stop talking to him. when I asked why he didn't give me a reason. (He was talking normally before i suggested to remain friends only ) Do you think I've hurt him and he was hiding his emotions? or does he actually not care?
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I personally don't want to hang out with a girl who's basically told me I'm not good enough, if I've hung out with her as friends and then gone on a date and she's decided I'm not an option it makes me feel like I'm worth less as a person. It hurts my feelings initially but I get over it lol. However I don't wanna be reminded of it by remaining friends with someone who's devalued me. That's just the way it is, I wish you the best of luck and we go our separate ways.
I'm still friends with girls I've turned down and I really admire them for it! However, we never went on a date, so I was able to say I never thought of them like that in the first place, there was no romantic rejection involved, it'd probably be different then.3
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