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First off, does the hate come from the cause of the breakup or is it your behavior after the breakup that led him to hate you? Cheating, lying, humiliating, hurting directly or indirectly, or just breaking this guy's heart for a reason he didn't think was legitimate can lead to the hate.
If the hate comes from after the breakup, it might come from you acting like you're so much better without him, if you shared embarrassing stories about him with your friends, if you're hooking up with his friends, if you moved on too quickly, if you stole or won't return something of his...
Repairing will depend on the cause for the hate. If you did something wrong, your best bet will be a very sincere and honest apology. If you're looking to get him back on top of it, a big gesture to that says I'm sorry and please forgive me might help repair the damage. It'll depend on what you did, his personality, and if it's something he can forgive. Example, If his favorite band is coming to town, you can buy him a couple tickets and say "I know I can't take back what I did, but I want you to have these. It may be nothing much and it won't undo what I did, but it's my way of saying I'm sorry and I hope you can forgive me one day". Don't expect be his date of course. I wouldn't buy something he can smash in front of your face however. LOL
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