A week ago II broke up with a guy that I was having a 4 month casual relationship with. Monday I decided to write a email to him explaining my side of the relationship and why I did the things that I did.
I didn't write it to accuse him of things although I did say in the letter that he never cared about me the way I cared about him and that I think he never even liked me and was just using me to get over his Ex. Although throughout the relationship he tell me that he liked me and treated me, sometimes, like I was his girlfriend.
Our last real conversation he told me he was still in love with her that we should stop "doing what we do."I don't him that we should just go our own way and that was that. I felt like that was real closure so I wrote the letter.
I know that some people do get some kind of reply but I don't know If I should feel like I should expect a reply back. I feel like after all the stuff did for him he should AT LEAST say something.
Anybody around here send a letter to their Ex and get a response back?
Also, the break up didn't have a fault. He said he didn't what the realstionship to contuite if I wanted more from him and I didn't want to continute with him if he was still in love with someone that didn't want him anymore (even he said what he was doing was stupid).
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Yes. I did that once--the breakup looked like one thing, but the circumstances of this were genuinely not what they appeared. She did reply. Even now, I'm still not entirely sure how to interpret her response. She seemed genuinely... affected by my letter. Hard to tell if her response was positive or not. I think it may have been the first time she really ever tried to look at things from my side.
Doesn't matter. Now that my head is clearer, I don't think I'd go back with her even if she was open to it. And she just got engaged, so it's a moot point now.
I'm not sure if it was worth bothering to write. If it happened now, I don't think I'd have written it. I almost feel like she didn't deserve the thoughtfulness I put into it.0