I reached out to her today (christmas) with: I wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas. Also, I don't know if you got it, if not there is a package for you at the post office waiting for you to pick up.
She responded: I have been real busy to even pick it up. I am confused though why you would have got me anything. And Merry Christmas to you too!
I don't know what to write back, as I might sound snide or do I just let her get the gift.
Side Note: She hasn't gotten the gift, in the card I wrote "thinking of you this Christmas. Love, my name (still your #1 fan) it is a shirt that had something funny on it and an antique medical dictionary (she is a Dr.) with a note in the book that read "saw this and thought of you, hope you enjoy it and it can help to show how far you have come (she has really bad self esteem issues)