Most Helpful Girl
First off let me start by saying am so sorry for your loss and I hope you're doing alright! Losing someone you love is very hard to deal with.
I think you should just stay away. Breaking up was the right thing to do. If you were all she thought about then she wouldn't be dating or posting other guys everywhere (especially as a wallpaper). It seems to me she just wants the attention from you but coming from a girl if she missed you and still wanted to be together she would be doing nothing with other men and would not be pulling away when you want to get together.
Besides, hypothetically let's say she does want to get back together. Do you really want a relationship with someone who acts this way? With someone who responds to your loss with selfishness. With someone who seems to enjoy playing confusing games to string you along? No one deserves that and my best advice is to stop following her or unfriend her on everything and try to move on because you're better than that and deserve better than her.
Most Helpful Guy
NOPE!!! Leave that shit alone. Move on.
My recent ex got back with her "jerk" ex-boyfriend after I ended it with her. She made it clear I treated her better than her ex. As it so happens, 2 weeks after I dumped her, her friend & I started dating (which is a better relationship so far), & the real reason my ex is trying to get me to go back out with her is 1) I was good to her & 2) She's jealous of her now ex-friend/girl I'm seeing.
It's an attempted mindfuck. Leave it be.