We've been broken up for a month. The relationship was great but toward the end went sour and he broke up with me. I was devastated at first but now in retrospect I was a lot stronger than I gave myself credit for. I got desperate, needy, and over all annoying. It's now the end of December and I'm thinking about writing him a hand written letter NOT to beg for him back but to own up to my faults in the relationship, basically say we were young and nothings anyone's fault that we just needed to grow up and just apologize for my end of things. Is this a bad idea? I think it would really help me and give him closure as well. I'm just scared he won't read it.
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If the relationship meant anything to him, which it most likely did, he WILL read it! Send it sooner rather than later! As time goes on, people tend to forget their feelings and although he may find it sweet, he could just brush it off. My girlfriend and I broke up nearly three months ago and I'm fighting like hell to get her back, especially now that she's in a new relationship. Love always comes out on top. If you truly love him, then write the letter out of love for him and what you honestly think will make him happy; don't write it out of selfishness and just to feel loved by him.0