To keep it breif, he and I were dating for about 3 or 4 months. Things were going very well, but after leaving for a week long trip, I reached out to him and he claimed he thought we should go our separate ways & that he wanted to see someone else. It was truly out of the blue & I was not expecting that honestly. Following that I cut all contact with him & never spoke to him ever again. Fast forward to 3 weeks later, which was yesterday and I got a message from him. He said he made a mistake and that things were going well and he messed up. He also said that he wanted something more serious with me. He said he wouldn't have reached out to me if he didn't think I was important & he missed seeing me.
I've never been in this situation before. What do I do? Is a second chance worth it? I did like him a lot.
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Look i will frankly tell you that dont take him back at all... he was looking somewhere else... maybe his ex or some hot girl... he must have tried and failed to get them and now he knows that you will take him back... so that's why he is asking you to take him back... you look more like a side chick... dont do this... what if he dumps you again and chases someone else and then comes back again... he is just using you...
If a girl did that to me i wouldn't take her back... why? HIGH SELF ESTEEM!!!1