My ex and I are trying to work things out (HE reached out to me btw)... we planned on hanging out on Sunday. Sunday comes around and I ask him what time he's free, he's like "helping my dad with a car". So I'm like ok maybe that means after I'm done with the car. At 7pm, I call him and ask whats going on, and he's like "oh I was in bed all day watching movies, I didn't feel like going out its raining", and I got really annoyed. I told him maybe we shouldn't talk anymore, and he's like "ok". Wtf? So i thought maybe he wanted to watch movies at his house, he didn't really say he doesn't want to hang out at all. So I asked him if I maybe overreacted? He ignored the friggin text. So, I kind of feel pissed off and upset.
Why is he acting this way? If you're not into me, then don't reach out to me at all! I was living my life without thinking about him, and he randomly msged me begging for me to talk to him, and when I actually make an effort to fix things, he does this. What is going on?
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he's being a jerk, he sees you as someone willing to be available when it suits him, so just let him get on with it. He will contact you when he's got nothing to do or no one to talk to, so if he tries to get in touch, don't bother, make him see how it feels when treated like a spare part, x2