My bf of just a short 2 months basically told me we wouldn't have sex after i told him i would never have sex with someone i wasn't 100% loves me. He said i " killed his fucking dreams" , i replied "so your not gonna do all of the stuff (sexual) you said you were going to?", his answer was no. not sure how to feel. He said i led him on by participating in this dirty talk. Did i? I didn't mean to, i just... i don't know. I always make mistakes, was he one?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, he has an attitude problem but expecting to be 100% sure of love isn't realistic either. Lots of people have sex before being totally in love and the sex is often part of making them fall in love.2
Most Helpful Girl
He's definitely a mistake.
That's in no way an outlandish claim to want the love/committment first.
Drop him. He basically told you that he's using you0