Most Helpful Guy
Well, he has an attitude problem but expecting to be 100% sure of love isn't realistic either. Lots of people have sex before being totally in love and the sex is often part of making them fall in love.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
He's definitely a mistake.
That's in no way an outlandish claim to want the love/committment first.
Drop him. He basically told you that he's using you0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE