Anyway, 3 weeks after we start talking she does a complete 180 and says she wants to break up for good this time. I ask her how she could go from loving me and wanting to try again to wanting to break up. She doesn’t give me an answer.
2 weeks later I see her at an event holding hands with another guy. Not the same guy from 2 months ago. Breaks my heart.
We live in the same neighborhood a few days ago I see her and her family, then I also see this new guy with them. They see me and he sort of puts his hand around her shoulder. I walk the other way. I can’t believe that she went from breaking up with me to bringing a guy home to meet the family in less than 2 months.
How can she move on so quickly?
Most Helpful Girl
She was/is hurting and lonely after the break-up, naturally. When girls feel that way, they want a guy to comfort them. It's one of the easiest ways to get some new perspective. It doesn't mean she will never come back to you... but dating someone else in the meantime might give you a new perspective, too.
Most Helpful Guy
You don't want to keep doing this yoyo relationship with her. Be done with it and don't think about her and her BF of the day. She would definatley divorce you if you ever got married because she always thinks the grass is greener. i dated someone like this in HS as we were off and on 3 times. The last time she came back but I simply said no. I really cared for her but it was a dead end and I had oats to sow.