Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 10 months and I was so in love with him and he was so in love with me. He would do anything to be with me and always ask to talk on the phone and always ask to come over or beg me to come over. Well this isn't the case anymore we both lived 30 miles apart and went to two different high schools but we stills saw each other a lot. Well he graduated in December and got a job 5 hours away and said he was going to live with his brother there. I thought that ment we were going to break up but he didn't want to he wanted to still be with me. My only condition for him leaving is for him to say goodbye before he left, and he looked me in the eyes and promised he wouldn't leave without seeing me and telling me goodbye. Well he did he left without seeing me at all, he moved away without saying goodbye to his girlfriend I was so upset and sad I told him he shouldn't have done that and he got mad at me and told me I shouldn't be mad at him he then said he will be down next weekend and I would see him then well he didn't come down then either, he them invited me to ride with his cousin and stay the week with him I was so exited and said yes and started packing well then the next day he said nevermind he dosnt wasn't me to come down. This hurt and made me sad he said itll be better for him to come down instead well he's not coming down. This hurt my feeling I even had a Christmas present for him that I saved 2 months for and its still sitting on a table in my house. I tried telling him how I felt and he got mad and was being so rude about it. I just sat on the floor and cried knowing the one who made me feel so amazing was all of a sudden making me feel the worse I have ever felt. I don't deserve this I love him so much but I don't deserve to be treated like this I want him know he can't do this but when I try I always chicken out and end up apologizing to him. I need help please someone help.
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I know how tuff it can be, but you can make it work. Me and my current ex just broke up cause she left for her ex. But back it all up we lived in the same town and she moved 40 mins away. Guess what I still came down like four to five times a week to see her and she kind of did the same. I was not going to let distance be an excuse to see my gf. She's 18 and I'm 21, I've been working at the casino but get paid about $450 every two weeks with hella free time. But I decided to quit and get a full time Job working M-F getting paid $450 weekly, was I tired hell yes started 6am to when ever we get off, who knows when we do usually a lot of overtime. But I would still come out there and spend time with my gf, I knew I took this job for money so we can do things as a couple and just have fun. I've always put her ahead of everything, and he can to if he chooses to. Now he should have seen you before he left, and he needs to stop canceling plans everytime. I know If I was with you and I left to work 5hours away from you I would rather stay with you then be 5 hours away. That's too hard for me to live over there knowing I have a gf back at home and guess what she's not getting any physicall love from me only verbal, and I wouldn't be supirsed of things go south sooner or later. So you need him to man up and realize he as you back at home and if you want it to work he needs to be available more. Or honestly things won't work out.0