Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 10 months and I was so in love with him and he was so in love with me. He would do anything to be with me and always ask to talk on the phone and always ask to come over or beg me to come over. Well this isn't the case anymore we both lived 30 miles apart and went to two different high schools but we stills saw each other a lot. Well he graduated in December and got a job 5 hours away and said he was going to live with his brother there. I thought that ment we were going to break up but he didn't want to he wanted to still be with me. My only condition for him leaving is for him to say goodbye before he left, and he looked me in the eyes and promised he wouldn't leave without seeing me and telling me goodbye. Well he did he left without seeing me at all, he moved away without saying goodbye to his girlfriend I was so upset and sad I told him he shouldn't have done that and he got mad at me and told me I shouldn't be mad at him he then said he will be down next weekend and I would see him then well he didn't come down then either, he them invited me to ride with his cousin and stay the week with him I was so exited and said yes and started packing well then the next day he said nevermind he dosnt wasn't me to come down. This hurt and made me sad he said itll be better for him to come down instead well he's not coming down. This hurt my feeling I even had a Christmas present for him that I saved 2 months for and its still sitting on a table in my house. I tried telling him how I felt and he got mad and was being so rude about it. I just sat on the floor and cried knowing the one who made me feel so amazing was all of a sudden making me feel the worse I have ever felt. I don't deserve this I love him so much but I don't deserve to be treated like this I want him know he can't do this but when I try I always chicken out and end up apologizing to him. I need help please someone help.
Most Helpful Guy
The guy got a job 5 hours away and it seems like the only person you can think about is yourself. I don't know the details, but reading what you wrote, it seems like you're a bit too clingy. I don't know if you went to college, but working full-time does a number on you. When I was in HS, I was awake all the time and wanted to go out. Now being 21 and working full-time, once the weekend hits, I don't want to do anything. It doesn't seem like he is trying to distant himself away from you, but his schedule is just too full. I tend to do this a lot as well. I don't necessarily dislike my friends, but I'd rather just relax after working.
You will understand once you start working and having responsibilities.0
Most Helpful Girl
Get a refund on the gift girl, gifts are for special people not just people who dgaf.
The only way to show him you'll leave him, is by leaving him. If he wants to be with you, he'll beg you back and try to improve. If he just takes it when you break up with him, then you'll know it's what he wanted all along and you'll know why he was treating you like this.
Do not chicken out and say sorry, wtf... He's in the wrong and YOU apologize? Please don't be one of those girls, you'll just keep getting hurt over and over with different guys.
You need to know your worth, because you clearly don't, if you did, you would tell him when he's wrong and not say sorry for it. That's crazy. You need to be strong!0
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