I was having a fling with my boyfriend's brother in law. I just called it off as I was deeply ashamed by my actions and really guilty.
The brother in law however has no remorse and wants it to continue.
I use to self harm and have been clean for quite a long time. However, I have just picked up a pair of scissors and made a few light cuts on my wrist.
I have told the brother in law how I feel but he don't seem to care.
How can I get him to leave me alone? And stop trying to persist the fling?
Most Helpful Guy
You must dump with him and make it clear that you wanna stop. If he still insists, ignore him. However, he can get angry and tell your boyfriend. Well, you'll have to face the situation and learn from your mistakes.
Just try not to cut yourself anymore. It's pointless and isn't at all good for you.0
Most Helpful Girl
You shouldn't have started this affair to begin with you bought this issue upon yourself and you should tell your bf and you say brother in law so is the guy married to your bfs sister? The physical pain youve inflicted on yourself due to the situation is nothing compared to the pain you have both caused in your relationships... come clean, deal with the consequences and it will all be over both the affair and your relationship0