I'm 9 months pregnant my husband slapped me for the first time what should I do? (Page 2)
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What a happy household to raise three kids in where mom thinks its okay to hit dad.
You hit him first, therefore he can hit you back. I understand it's horrible to hit a woman, a pregnant on at that, but you initiated it when you slapped him. If he hits you for no reason you should then leave.
I wouldn't have hit you if i were him, as you are carrying a child, but you shouldn't hit people, then hide behind your gender to avoid getting hit back
Why do you get to slap him and not expect any reciprocation? Now maybe he shouldn't have slapped you, but in the heat of the moment that's probably going to be the guys response. What do you expect?
I don't think he should've slapped you back but it probably was "in the heat of the moment." You shouldn't have slapped him, you made it physical.
Maybe because you slapped him first.
Perfect insight ;)
Have you tried counseling? Because domestic violence is never a good sing but if you're close to have your 3rd child with him and think that you might still have a chance talk to him about counseling or leave him If it happens again
But she slapped him first?
That's why I advice counseling cause domestic violence is not acceptable for guys or girls to be abused no one deserves to be slapped
Well if she doesn't want to be slapped, she shouldn't pick physical fights..
There was no reason for you to slap him. It sounds like he was merely defending himself.
>slaps husband
>confused when he fights back
I guess you should feel lucky he's not pressing charges for battery.
"I slapped him in the face first and he came back with an even harder slap."
So you remember, that you slapped him first? Lesson learned?
Call the damn cops and report for domestic abuse and sue his ass off
there is no guarantee he wouldn't do that again
I didn't read the part where you slap him
what goes around comes around you shouldn't have slapped him in the first place :p
Why did you slap him?
Those telling you you should stay are absolute nuts! You should take your children, and get away now!
If he hits you once, he is going to do it again, count on that.
Did you read the part about her hitting him first?
Actually I read it like he hit her twice.. I does justify it in some way. I would never hit my husband/boyfriend, but if I did and he hit me back, I would leave. Men are much bigger and stronger, and he could have held her down or something, instead of hitting her back. @Mesonfielde
Hmph. He should leave for having a physically abusive wife.
That's up to him. @Mesonfielde
Well of course. But she is the one who should get her tendencies in check.
No one should ever hit their partner, man or woman. But I continue to think it is way worse for him to it her, than vise versa. @Mesonfielde
The worst offender is the person who hits first.
Well yea, but I still think a man hitting is way worse. @Mesonfielde
... nah
... yea
@Mesonfielde
I don't like violence but you deserve it.. dont slap people
Don't take it serious, its sometime normal in a happy going family. Be possitive
Sounds like you got what you deserved. I feel bad that your kids will have a horrible mother
All i can say is it gets easier after the first time
Pack your bags and go or live with his violence
What violence? SHE HIT HIM!!! let's not always play the victims!!! So if a wife slaps her husband it's playful but if a husband slaps her it's abuse ?
Asker. You need to take care of your baby. No more stress.
I don't think that having a physically abusive mother for a mother is such an amazing feat.
@abundantlyrich So you can accept the wife's aggressive behavior, but not the husbands?
Icarus45 - there is a life involved. Whatever happened, she is in a volatile situation. Protect the baby first.
Most of these people in this question have no concern for the life inside her and would wish death upon this life. They have no real life experience to deal this sort of thing.
Icarus - she is hormonal during her pregnancy , if you could have predicted she was going to be violent, would you strap her to a chair and bashed her up for too emotional?
But you slapped him first.