We were together 6 months & we broke up nearly a month ago. My friends & family say I'm better off without her because she treated me like shit but I still miss her so much. Also the thought of her being with another guy is killing me. She gave me a bunch of different excuses (I have posted them on here in another Q if you'd like to see) but she mostly kept saying she doesn't know why she doesn't like me anymore & that I'm great, she even said I'm the only guy she would ever consider going back to. She kept saying all these contradicting things but for some reason she's all I can think about I miss her so much. I can see where she's bad for me tho because I was always stressed & unhappy when I wasn't around her because of stuff she would say to me. She was never fully invested into the relationship to begin with either she would say still like "it's not like will last long anyway" which made me paranoid. Maybe it'll be different if I got her back or maybe not I don't know I just want her back & I want the pain to stop. Should I contact her or let time heal me?
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Personally, i'd let time heal you. I know it can be hard, but if she wasn't fully invested in the relationship in the first place, then she probably won't be the next time. From what i've read it sounds like she's leading you on alittle, and she may be unsure of what she wants. I'd cut contact so she doesn't think she can use you as a rebound in the future. You never know that may help her figure out what she wants too. Keep your head up, it'll get better with time.2