Most Helpful Girl
it sounds like she does not appreciate you! I am my bf first girlfriend and he does the same thing as u said except one difference... I do the same for him! I love him so i am always there for him, give him gifts, make sure to communicate, etc .
On a separate not i am just wondering cuz my bf never had kissed anyone untill me anyway when a guy has a first relationship with a girl like later in life college time or later is he more likley to really be attahced like i sometimes worry he may think he can do better because he has never dated but he never shows that like complte opposite. he tels me he is lucky all the tiem. sorry long rant. anyway is there do u think a corelation b/w frist loves later in life for guys to be more attahced or willing to make things work if things dont /start to go downhill?
Most Helpful Guy
Dude maybe the honeymoon phase is over? Is she missing a previous ex or something?
I was in the same boat as you about a month ago, did everything for my first real love. Then she ran into an ex and was confused on what she wanted. Simple as that nine months down the drain. She dumped me to try again with an ex.
I have the same question to, will they realize what they lost? Yes most likely one day when they get hurt. But I don't know I'm already moving on in my life.
All we can do is move on, and live life, who knows maybe one day she'll come back or not.