Most Helpful Guy
Honestly we all have issues either it be financially, over weight, no job, and no car. But that's a bs excuse, I would not break up with someone I love, to find myself cause I'm depressed.
If he loves you he would put you first and knowig you would stay by his side, through all the hardships shows him you care about him. He's hiding something, no doubt.
Let him go, if you want and focus on you, who knows maybe you might not want him back and find somone better. He has no confidence, no goals, no ambition. All he has going for him is the XY chromosome haha.
So I would move on, if someone loved you he wouldn't let you like that.
Most Helpful Girl
I will be honest and say that the fact he's been on the dating site is not good at all. If he wants space and doesn't feel like being even with his friends, then why is he on a dating site? I know this is hard but to me it seems a bit like he isn't leaving you right now because he has nobody else to go to right now. If I were you, I'd either confront him about the dating site and demand honesty, or then I'd just erase him from my life.