So my ex and I were taking it slow and slowly getting back together during the month of December until arguments happened. She couldn't get over the arguments and everytime we saw each other we would argue and I would always try to make it up to her.
She suggested taking time apart from me so she can be herself again and slow things down. She wanted me to take this time to focus and improve myself and she said she'll be waiting for me. Thing is she even told me we're not good for each other right now and we aren't in the place to commit back.
she told me to feel free to text or call her to say hi or if I want to hangout. She's really confused me by time apart and all this.
It's been 4 days since I've last heard from her. I texted her to have a good day and I love her. She said the same thing to me. I was expecting her to follow up on how the day went but nothing.
Right now it's killing me that she hasn't checked up on me. I'm surprised it may not be bothering her. I'm tempted to contact her but I know it'll be immature of me. Any advice?
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There are two main reasons to ask your couple for a "time apart":
1. Your relation is just hanging on a cliff but the person doesn't wants to hurt the other one.
2. She just found another guy, but she also wants a backup plan if it doesn't work, so the she keeps you there.0