I've been dating this man for about 3 months and everything has been going great. He was engaged to to someone he was dating for years up until about 7 months ago prior to us dating. We made plans to get together this weekend, and we had a great time again. last week and yesterday I noticed a little hesitation and distance in intimacy so I asked if there was something wrong, and little by little he said that he really really likes me and Im a great person, but that he feels stuck because he's having hard time moving on with our relationship because he doesn't know if he is really over the ex. Well, if I didn't ask, was he ever gonna tell me this? I think i know what i have to do, but im not sure Im ready to do it because i think I've actually fallen for him and it truly hurts.
Most Helpful Guy
Just continue as normal until the conversation comes up again and you can ask him what he really thinks.0
Most Helpful Girl
At least he was honest with you. It may hurt but you cannot change who a person loves. It may not seem like it but you will get over it. Why love someone whos heart is somewhere else? Besides, he was single for only 4 months before he started dating you- that is surely not enough time to get over a failed engagement. I am sorry but you might of been the rebound. You have to move on or give him time to figure out what he wants no matter how painful it is because this pain is short lived compared to the pain still being involved with someone and chasing someone who loves someone else.0