Most Helpful Guy
Unfortunately you just can't. They really suck.
Most Helpful Girl
"and the missing him... Dont block it out, dont but so it stops, dont drink yourself numb. Just sit and let it all rip you apart. And then get up and keep breathing, one breath at a time. And one day at a time. Wake up and be shredded. Cry for a while. Then stop crying and go about your day. You're not okay, but you're alive, and you will be okay, someday."
I felt like crap a month ago. When I got dumped. But I got that message from a friend and found that it makes sense to let your heart break, and deal with it NOW, day by day. So that one day when you're up, you're really up... And you're strong.
this too shall pass