The problem is the timing , his birthday is coming up in a week. I got him a gift already.
Should I break up now or wait until after his birthday? Does it even matte when I do it?
What do would you prefer if you were in my bf's shoes?
Most Helpful Guy
I guess it doesn't really matter, for you anyway, but for him it probably does, cos he's the one being dumped. If I was in his shoes, ide want you to wait till after my bday, but I wouldn't want to know that you waited. I suggest you do it a week after his birthday, after all you did say its been coming a while, so what's another 2 weeks.
Most Helpful Girl
Do it after his b-day. I just went through the same thing. Didn't want to end it before the holidays so he'd be depressed. I still gave him the gift and ended it after new years.